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| Charitable, in the post title, autocorrected to irritable, which made me laugh. |
So. The holidays. Seriously? Seriously! Because I really
don’t want my kids to remember this as the year they reached into their
Christmas ( / Hanukkah) stockings and pulled out honorary donations to
Planned Parenthood and
the
ACLU,
a subscription to the Washington Post, a canvas NPR tote bag, and a book
about Hitler’s rise to power even if, yes, that’s what all the grown-ups are
getting. More than ever, though, I do want to support writers and artists and
musicians: I’m paying for and giving music and books—even though there is the
library and Spotify—because we need to invest in the things we care about. Also
art and art supplies and, yes, board games. Because non-consumer activities are
the key to our salvation. Also, because we like to play new games on Christmas like the good atheist gaming Jews that we are.
The charitable piece: If you click over to Amazon from any of
the links in this blog, then I make a significant commission on everything you
buy from that round of shopping, whether or not you buy something I actually recommended.
We will be donating all that commission money at the end of the month. (I
promise it will be way more than the Amazon Smile program would make for your
organization—so don’t click over to that, even if Amazon tries to tempt you.) I’ll
take a screen shot of the total on December 31
st, and you can stay
tuned and weigh in on where to give it. (I’ll take a screen shot of the
donation too, so you don’t picture me secretly luxuriating in the Bahamas
because you bought a jigsaw puzzle.) In fact, if you wanted to leave a comment
about that now—where to give the money—I’d be grateful. Planned Parenthood and
the ACLU and the
Southern Poverty Law Center leap to mind, but there's also
Partners in Health and other international organizations that might be suffering, donation-wise, because of our troubles at home. Please share your thoughts. (And for
your own giving,
this is a great post-election guide.)
Last year's gift ideas are here.
The year before, here.
The year before that, here.
And the year before that, here.
As always, the master list of games is here.
Gift Guide 2016
Gifts for Kids,
Artists, and Gamers
Cathedral makes a great gift because it’s wooden and lovely
and seems kind of heirloomy in that nice holiday way.
It's in the game family of Quoridor and Quarto
and Gobblet—the games we refer to as "the
wood games," as in, "I don't know. Maybe one of the wood games?"
when someone asks you what you want to play, and there are only two of you
playing. Logic + spatial relations = I rarely win. But I like playing.
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| photo from the League of Nonsensical Gamers website |
Patchwork is another two-person game, which someone
recommended here last year, and even though there’s a ton of strategy in it,
it’s fairly quick and straightforward, with a fun
Blokus-type quilt-themed
puzzle element to it. Please note: the game box is depressingly ugly, like a
quilt made by somebody’s misanthropic and colorblind great aunt, but the pieces
inside are totally different and very attractive. (I am kind of a game
aesthetics snob.)
Lanterns is a gorgeous tile-laying game also recommended
here last year, by a reader named Amanda. I gave it to the kids last Christmas,
and then we went away for two days and played nonstop for two days in our motel
room. We’ve played a lot since, too. It’s a matching game crossed with a set-collecting
game and, like all good games, every time you play it you feel like you're
finally hitting upon the one true strategy—only to find, the next time you play
it, that you weren't. It's super-pretty too, and not that hard to
learn—certainly not nearly as hard as some board games (Agricola, I’m looking
at you.)
My friend Asha’s husband invented the game
Tiffin, and it’s
a really good game. It’s a total gamer’s game, 2-4 players, fairly complex but
not super-long. The (awesome) concept is that each player is delivering hot
lunches by bicycle in Mumbai, and you need to make as many deliveries as you
can to score points—but, that said, it’s pretty abstract while you’re playing,
and it’s more about collecting and timing. It reminds us a little of the
also-fabulous
Ticket to Ride, if that’s a game you know.
Okay, shhhh, I’m giving
Sushi Go Party to Birdy this year.
We play a lot of the basic version of
Sushi Go when we don’t have a ton of time
and can’t think of what else we’d want to play, and that’s partly because it’s
a clever, satisfying game, and partly because the cards are
so cute with their sushi little cutie
faces. This expanded version has more cute cards. I think that’s kind of it!
But I feel like we need that in our lives, more cute cards.
Asmodee Timeline: Inventions. The way this game works is
that everyone has a hand of cards, and you take turns laying them in order,
trying to get the chronology of different inventions right—once you play your
card, you get to look at the date on the back. So you might lay “light bulb”
between “mammoth-bone weapon” and “ipod nano,” and you’d be right! It’s
actually subtler than that—it’s kind of a cross between trivia and deductive
reasoning—and I like the inventions version (there are lots of games in the
Timeline series) because if I don’t feel as stupid not knowing whether “hair
dryer” comes before or after “electric toaster” as I would not knowing whether
“Cuban Missile Crisis” comes before or after “The French Revolution.” Also,
it’s a very tiny and portable game, and fun to keep in your bag for any waiting
you might have to do.
I read about these
Paper Games in some fancy gift guide, and
got a set for the kids this year: five 150-page pads of tear-off two-person
pen-and-paper games, including
three-dimensional Tic-Tac-Toe, Dots and Boxes, Hedron, Nim,
and Hex. (I think I only know Dots and Boxes!) The presentation is deeply
attractive, and I love the idea of keeping a pad or two in the car and in my
bag, since you can always draw or write on the backs of the pages.
This is a pad of “artist’s tiles,” which basically means perfect
six-inch squares of high-quality paper that tear off perforatedly. They are so
nice, and the pad is so chunky, and all in all it seems reasonably priced for
such good paper that you can sketch on or fold up into cards or use for writing
your elected officials.
And while you’re at it,
this is an excellent set of black
pens for the artists or writers in your life—a perennial favorite gift of ours.
As far as colored pens go, we’ve given many sets of
these in the past couple of
years, and they are wonderful.
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Forgive me if this is too particular/peculiar to be helpful,
but Birdy has been wanting and wanting a
long-throated stapler, so I am finally
giving her one. If you’ve got a person in your family who is forever folding up
paper into zines and books and pamphlets, but then they can’t figure out how to
get a stapler to reach all the way in to the fold, then this is a gift you
might consider.
I’m recommending my friend Kate’s book again here, because
the world needs more of Kate’s books, and because it is a profoundly excellent
book for anyone of any age:
Rad WomenWorldwide. It’s a collection of mini biographies of extraordinary women
doing extraordinary, bad-ass things—even more extraordinary than the ordinary
things that all of us everyday women are doing so extraordinarily bad-assedly,
if you know what I mean. Forty profiles—from the better-known 20
th
century Mexican painter
Frida
Kahlo to the lesser-known Grace "Granuaile" O'Malley, a 16th-century
Irish sea captain—all illustrated with Miriam Stahl’s incredible
paper-cut art. This is the team that brought you
Rad American Women A to Z, so you know it’s good.
I also got
The Gutsy Girl
for Birdy, because even though it looks a lot like a tough-girl version of our
belovedly ungendered
Unbored, I can’t resist feeding that girl’s love of
adventure and courage and independence.
Are you are giving gifts to very small people this year? I’m
realizing that I’ve have never had occasion to recommend my three all-time
favorite little-kid pretend-play presents, two of which are extremely
inexpensive:
Guest check pads (10 for $8). Ben got a pad of guest checks as a party
favor when he was a preschooler, and it added a great deal of pizzazz to years
and years of the children’s pretend restaurants. This is either a good thing or
a bad thing, depending on your tolerance for sitting on a tiny chair while
somebody painfully writes the words “eg sallid sambwidge” on a pad, tears off
your copy, and then brings you a plastic crab inside a tiny enamel pot, but
still. A set of pretend money is a great accompaniment to this gift.
A roll of generic tickets (these come in lots of colors).
Same as above, only for performances: concerts, circuses, magic shows, dance
recitals, poetry readings, surrealist plays about LEGO and farm animals. The
tickets always lent just the exact right detail of realism that the kids were
craving. Again, use your discretion, since maybe you’re not looking to
encourage your children to put on even more soul-crushingly meandering and
infinite performances than you’re already enduring.
Play silks. Over many, many years of dressing up and making
believe, this rainbow assortment of silky fabric squares has been everything to
my kids: capes and skirts; rivers and forests in theatrical sets; doll slings
and hammocks and curtains; tea-party table cloths and fluttering flags. If I
were to calculate cost per use, it would be something like one gazillionth of a
cent.
And Ben and Birdy still use them.
Hamilton: TheRevolution. What can I say? We got the bug. We listen to the soundtrack day
and night, the way normal people did a year ago. And even though this is an
expensive book, it’s cheaper than trying to actually go to the show. Total savings: $3775.
These parachute-nylon hammocks are all the rage in our particular
outdoor-themed world, and for good reason: they’re light, strong, pretty, comfortable,
and super-easy to hang up. We love ours. It would make a great gift for campers
or more domestic backyard types.
We are puzzlers of all kinds around here—crossword, logic,
and, yes, jigsaw. I know I mentioned
this puzzle briefly last December, but
this year I’m putting it officially in the gift guide because it’s a perfect
puzzle (and because its designer is a reader here). And lest I recommend some crazy puzzle with no cookie theme,
this is another great puzzle that we did earlier
this year during a multi-family weekend trip. Perfection.
Gifts for Grown-ups:
Two Novels, Socks, and Cooking Stuff
Colson Whitehead’s
The Underground Railroad. If, like me, you’re
having a hard time right now with reading matter that falls at all short of
life-and-death importance, but you still like a good novel, then this is the
book for you. I couldn’t put it down. Get it for yourself, but give it as a
wrapped gift and ask to borrow it as soon as the person unwraps it.
After one of my most trusted reading friends recommended it
to me, I got
the new Zadie Smith book for my dad, in the hopes that I might
borrow it more or less asap, as above. I’m sure it will be excellent.
I’ve been giving a pair of
these socks to my mother every
year because they are wool and they are gorgeous and they come with an
unconditional lifetime guarantee. (Um, yeah, hi, I doused my socks in gasoline? And lit a match? And they burned up! So, like, can I get my money back?) I also
like that this style is called “witch crew,” since they really do look like the legs
sticking out after Dorothy’s house falls onto that wicked somebody.
Yes, this
Whiskware Dressing Shaker is a total one-trick
pony of a gadget, but I confess to loving it. For the past twenty years, our
salad dressing has left leaves oily mason-jar rings on the counter
every night. No more! This is a
leak-proof glass shaker bottle that has a dripless spout and a weird metal ball
in it that looks like a cat toy but pretty well emulsifies your vinaigrette. I
know, I know. You’ve already got a free mayonnaise jar, and so do all your
friends and relations. But trust me on this.
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| Mine look more like dirty rags now, but still. |
Abeego Beeswax Wrappers. The big ones. My friend Nicole gave these to me
for Christmas, either last year or the year before, and I use them every day.
They’re great non-plastic bowl covers, yes, and you can wrap cheese in them or
anything else, but what I mostly use them for is packing Birdy’s school-lunch
sandwiches: they’re easy, reusable, and nontoxic, and they smell pleasantly of
beeswax. If you have the kind of friend who would love a great solution to an
everyday problem, this is the gift for him or her. Don’t give it to your
dad, though, unless he’s, like, Sting.
This is a huge splurge, but I bought it earlier
in the year because Michael was still cooking eggs in a horrible old nonstick
pan, and I swore that I would replace it with something that would neither
poison us all continually nor be as needy and high-maintenance as our cast-iron
pans. Voila. This is my go-to pan for everything. You have to follow the
directions lovingly when you first get it—heating it gently with oil or butter,
never dry—and then it will love you back, so that even eggs and tofu slide
right out. Plus, it’s gorgeous: heavy and lovely, but not fussy. It comes in
many colors (and sizes too, though 10 1/4 is what I have and love for a pair of fried eggs or a couple of chops) and is crazy expensive because Le Creuset.
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| This is the first year in a while that I didn't recommend you buy your *kids* some or other crazy knife! |
Years ago, I recommended
a little Kyocera ceramic paring knife—which I stand by; it is a wonderful knife—and now I’m recommending the
5½ inch knife in the same series. I basically never use my metal knives any more
because this knife is always sharp and great and exactly what I want to use. I
love it, love it, love it, and recommend it as a gift for your cooking friends
and family. Plus, it comes in lots of pretty colors!
One last thing:
this calendar. I bought it for myself at Paper Source (my favorite store of things) and it was a huge splurge because for the past twelve years we've been using the free Norman Rockwell calendar from the bank, so every day when I go to write "root canal" or "set self on fire because of the election" I am stuck looking at a basket of puppies or a rosy-cheeked boy bent over so that the teacher who's scolding him can also be whapping his behind with a paddle. Suffice it to say: I am IN LOVE with this calendar. Every page is some perfectly gorgeous arrangement of paint chips, and it's huge, and it's very matte and lovely to write on. I bought one as a present too.
Okay. I'm excited. I hope you end up with some awesome gifts and that we end up with a lot of money to give too! To that end, please share this guide as widely as possible! <3 p="">
