If there's one thing the kids and I can agree on, it's our love of gender stereotypes. Gosh, we do love them. Birdy enjoys nothing more than imagining herself one day weak and underpaid, teetering around on spike heels that she can just make out below her double-D fake boobs and pink whalebone spank-me Spanx. It's okay that pink's not her favorite color because it *is* her favorite color! I mean not actually, because her favorite color is turquoise, but conventionally, because she's a girl! And if the spike heels get in the way of the karate black belt she is working towards? That's a small price to play for the femininely helpless elegance of a broken ankle.
To say nothing of Ben and his love of the color blue! Which is at least his 17th favorite color, if not his 16th! He loves blue and all things blue because he's a real boy's boy-y boy-boy. He can hardly wait for puberty when his beard will grow in and simultaneously push out of his facial pores all of the pesky feelings like compassion and empathy that might bog him down in his manhood ascendance to the supreme manly state of feelinglessness and domination and also the utterly natural footballish man-love of watching men tackle each other. Luckily there are no feelings to stir up! Phew.
It is all so good and right. And so, the kids and I were not surprised to see this pair of paint chips at the hardware store.
Sweet Baby Boy and Sweet Baby Girl. Of course. You would not want your customers to get mixed up, and so it's easiest just to make sure they know which is which, kind of like putting signs on the bathroom doors so you don't end up sitting on a urinal to pee. You wouldn't want to *by mistake* paint a room the wrong color and have everyone turn out transgendered and color-gay and whatnot, and so we were very grateful for the help. But imagine our delight when it turned out that one paint company had gone even one step further!
And that's just for the boys! Birdy's going to paint her room Magenta Vagina or Vulva Rose. She can't decide.
xo
Oh Catherine, I love you. This is awesome.
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I can only imagine the fun you had making up these names.
ReplyDeleteOur girls' rooms are blue and green, and our boys' room is also green. I guess we goofed.
Too funny!
ReplyDeleteNow THAT was the best part of Valentine's Day by far.
ReplyDeleteBe careful though--"Twilight Testicles" will probably have people contacting you wishing to obtain the kahunas of certain shimmering bloodsuckers. ;)
Hahahahahah. Oh, but that is the best belly laugh out loud I have had in a long time. You are a wonderful gem and I am so, so happy to have stumbled onto your blog. Tell Ben I am using his long-haired gorgeousness to inspire my 4-yr-old to grow his own out. Screw stereotypes. Up with vulva teal and testes magenta!
ReplyDeleteYou really do have too many ice dams on the roof up there, don't you?
ReplyDeleteI love this. My six-year-old daughter's favorite color is black. It's been suggested to her that it should be pink instead. When I was her age, my favorite color *was* pink (as in I wanted pink hair, pink eyes, pink skin, a whole pink world). My daughter is fascinated with make-up and used black washable marker as eyeshadow recently because the only makeup I own is powder. Let the gender-bending/twisting continue!
ReplyDeleteYou ROCK. Seriously. That's what my 7-year-old son who loves to play with his sister (including her 'girl-games') and is hoping to grow up, become a rock star, pierce his ear, and 'maybe be one of those guys who DO wear makeup' would say. He also loves Pokemon, horsing around (you know, the 'boy way'), and hip-hop. No pink in his wardrobe and his hair doesn't grow long, just BIG... but still. THANK you, Catherine.
ReplyDeleteI once read (in Brain, child I believe), that pink was once considered a very masculine color (which is interesting, but still weird, because last I checked colors don't have genitals).
ReplyDeleteMy children mix it up. Unicorns and dump trucks. When my son puts on flowered pants for school, I secretly love that he doesn't yet know that he's wearing "girl's pants," but I also hope that if a classmate tells him, that they're gentle.
Love.
ReplyDeleteI too have a "Princess Boy," but I see this paint color name as referring to a "retro" color. Like a fifties-ish cultural reference. True it's kind of a stupid name, but I'm not sure it's worth paying too much attention to. Perhaps I am naive, but I really don't think people paint boy rooms and girl rooms baby boy blue and baby girl pink.
ReplyDeleteTeafortwo cracked me up! I, too, and loving hearing you let it rip these days.
ReplyDeleteI have to admit, when my husband very gently removed my three year old boy's valentine's day stick-on earrings before we sat down to dinner with his grandfather, my heart broke a little. This is my stay-at-home- dad husband whose favorite winter scarf is pink stripes, has mostly women friends, and had hair down to the middle of his back as a teenager. Now it's breaking my heart that I let it pass with only a mild reproach. I guess it caught me so off guard because that's not his style. At all. Hmm. --Cathy K
Vuvla rose. Definitely.
ReplyDeleteI painted my girls' room purple-- because it's MY favorite color and they couldn't tell me they wanted otherwise at the time! I really enjoy the pre-verbal time when I call all the shots and they happily compy. Soon my choices will be super lame, but I like looking at the purple in the meantime!
ReplyDeleteLove how you go straight from Magenta Vagina or Vulva Rose to a beets recipe!
ReplyDeleteI remember Ben's favorite "pink stripey-stripe" shirt too (I think that's what you called it).
Great post!
I love you.
ReplyDeletePerhaps to make it easier they should just stamp the babies Girl or Boy as they leave the hospital...or have the midwife do it if at home? ;)
ReplyDeleteI have been thinking a lot about this issue lately, because I have a bit of a princess boy myself. Granted, he's only 2 years old, and he does love football (thanks to his daddy) and his trucks, but at the moment his favorite shoes on earth are his bright red "sparkle shoes" which one of his awesome teachers bought him after noticing that he was pretty much living in the pair from the dress up corner. I have let him wear them everywhere from the store to church, and I thank god that he is still oblivious to the stares he gets. He's too busy strutting around like a proud peacock-boy.
ReplyDeleteLove this entry, thank you.
this rocks! this all pisses you off as much as it does me ... nice post. vulva rose, hah!
ReplyDeleteMaybe we should just dip babies in a vat of blue or pink dye at the hospital so we don't have to risk any of that pesky gender "confusion." That way everyone will know their favorite colors just by looking at an arm or a leg. No thinking necessary!
ReplyDeleteI saw some PBS Special (or something like that) that some, oh, 300 years ago, blue was the girl color and pink (because it's related to red, which is aggresive and bloody) was the boy color. Isn't that a switcheroo!
(And how many times have I heard myself say to my students, "There is no such thing as a 'boy color' or a 'girl color.'"Aaargh.)
Oh, lord. Who peed in your wheaties? Kidding.
ReplyDeleteThis post is excellent!
Really?? I guess I'm not on the same band wagon as the rest of you....
ReplyDeleteNo offense intended, Catherine, but aren't you, in essence, reverse sterotyping your kids but implying (or flat out saying) that such things as pink for girls and blue for boys is wrong?? Making such comments and jokes about all of this tells your kids a very strong message, as well.
As the mother of a girly-girl tomboy, I just had to laugh... One day its princess dresses and sparkles, the next it is Nerf guns and war paint. And sometimes it is both in one day! The most important thing to me is that she feels like she can be anything and do anything she sets her mind to!
ReplyDeleteSTOP IT! I've had three babies! Don't you know making me laugh like that will cause me to PEE MY PANTS?!? xoxo
ReplyDeleteI have three girls. They all really like pink. Big deal. Well, actually, when I asked my 4 year old her favorite color, she said "rainbow". If people bought us pink baby gifts in the past, and hand us down their pinky girly clothes, who am I to say "no, it's too pink"? And if my 7 year old wants a pink room with hot pink trim, is it right for me to say "no, it's too pink"? Nah. While I'm no fan of gender-typing, I'm not purposely dressing them in boys clothes to proove some point either. Love you to bits, Catherine. Agree with you 99% of the time even! Just having a pms-y day and need some chocolate NOW. (How's that for gender-typing?!) ;-)
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ReplyDeleteThese days, I was forced into reflexion and discussion with colleagues about what is feminine and masculine appearances. A masculine colleague of mine has come out recently as being in the process of transsexuality (man to woman). She is now wearing no more brown and black, and more colors like light blue shirts and purple tights. For her, it was impossible to wear those colors as a man. Obviously, there are more profound issues for her than colors but it is an important part of the change she is undergoing. On the other hand, I was discussing with a feminine colleague how we almost never wear make up, wear in black and brown a lot, are in slacks most of the time and never felt otherwise as (heterosexual) women. As for my transsexual colleague, she is going fully in the make up, skirts, pink "feminine" appearance that I don't like as a woman. And my "masculine" partner, a man, likes to wear pink shirts and was once called bad names for wearing bright yellow shorts.
Hope I am not being too serious again...
Thanks anyway for bringing up the discussion in a very funny way!
Catherine, I love this. You are wonderful. Please, please more from you on this topic. We *need* it. We need to know how to manage this issue with humor and elegance in a world that is often not funny or elegant on this topic.
ReplyDeleteMy husband almost got beat up once on a Sunday morning outing to the farmer's market because he took our three year old son to the men's room to go pee. Our son who happened to be wearing his favorite pink dress. He's older now and out of the dress phase (my son, not my husband, who has yet to have a dress phase, I guess?), but we still get a lot of comments about his beautiful long hair.
It's not that there's anything wrong with girls who actually like pink and princesses or boys who like blue and trucks. Obviously that's fine and I'm quite sure Catherine thinks so too. But the world is sometimes very hostile to children who are making different choices.
HAHAHA! I knew you were getting worked up to something good here, but your paint chip names still caught me off guard and caused me to do the loud laugh! (and then break my lurking to comment!) Love those Manly Shades o' Blue.
ReplyDelete...and now I see my captcha is "perspit" which is fitting as I think I may have spit a little bit too with the sudden laugh...
This is my favorite Catherine Newman post of all time!
ReplyDeleteAll I was going to say was "I love you" but a few people beat me to it. (i love you!)
ReplyDeleteLove this post. On a similar note, I absolutely HATE the phrase, "he is ALL boy" when people talk about one of my three boys...wtf is THAT suppose to mean? It just makes me cringe every time I hear it. Thanks for your thoughts...and the delivery couldn't be better.
ReplyDeleteThe angriest I've been in a long time was when I wanted to buy boots for my son, who was 5, and he wanted the ones with little flowers on the ankle and the store clerk said, "No, those are for girls." I wanted to smack her. WTF, lady? Can't a boy be fancy if he wants to? I told him she was wrong, flowers are for everybody. He didn't end up choosing them, and I can't help wondering if he would have felt more free to if she hadn't spoken up.
ReplyDeleteGreat post. What always gets me (as the mom of three boys) is when someone says, "oh, he is ALL boy"...wtf is THAT suppose to mean? Just makes me cringe when I hear it. Thanks for making such an important point in such an entertaining way!!
ReplyDeleteI wish everybody would read this post. It's important! I have two girls, and they can wear boyish clothes and play sports (until they are teens and have to dress like prostitutes and suppress their intellect so boys will like them) but heaven forbid a boy crosses the line in to girl world.
ReplyDeleteYikes on the paint (ok, stereotype) issues!! It's been my experience that most stereotypes are actually founded in, well, reality, and usually there is darn good reason for them. I admit that extending them to paint colors is a bit murky, so to speak. I kind of understand your angst.
ReplyDeleteRegarding the butternut galette thing... made it tonight using a warty Blue Hubbard, rosemary instead of thyme and mix of Parmesan w/a touch of cheddar (cause this is what the larder bore). I've never been good at pastry, but thanks to you, have entered a new realm of life - successful pastry maker. This recipe ranks up there with the baked tomato sauce that is in my "so good you'll cry" (sniff)file. SO GOOD!!
Best,
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Oh, my husband and I laughed so hard at this. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteAwesome article, Catherine. You may have already seen this on Salon, but just in case...
ReplyDeletehttp://www.salon.com/life/real_families/index.html?story=/mwt/feature/2011/02/21/son_looks_great_in_dress
Mandy, thank you for the link to the Salon very interesting article.
ReplyDeleteCatherine -Let me start by saying how much I enjoy your writing and admire you as a mother. So, please don't be offended by my comment...
ReplyDeleteI understand not wanting to box your kids into growing up according to a certain stereotype, but I wonder how would you react if Ben's absolute favorite color was blue and he dreamed of being a professional athlete and Birdy was obsessed with high heels and pretty pink things....would this be ok with you?
Oh, Catherine, just when I thought I couldn't possibly love you even more. You rock.
ReplyDeleteOne of my girls likes horses, and one likes snakes. My god I must be a fantastic mother then, right?
ReplyDeleteTheir choices are not your pride, lets try to remember that.
Color-gay! HA! You killed me dead. So funny and dead-on right. And, commenters, I am pretty sure Catherine would love her children if Birdy loved pink and Ben loved blue. Come on now. This is Catherine we are talking about!
ReplyDeleteWhich is why I painted the nursery yellow.
ReplyDeleteBut then you know what I think about all that.
xo, hope all y'all are well.
I named my daughter Indigo, so you can guess how much I care about the "blue is for boys" notion.
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand, she's currently wearing a tutu, tiara and those sparkly Target shoes. If she's like her sister, she will grow out of this phase when she gets out of pre-school.
Catherine, I have been reading your columns forever and don't remember if I've ever posted a comment before. But, let me just say first, that you are my favorite writer, ever. You simply capture the experiences of parenthood as no other can. And, I just had to comment on this post because I have been very intrigued by gender stereotypes all my life. I was one of those girls who loved all things "boy" when I was little. I wanted boy clothes, boy haircut, a pocket knife, a pocket watch, cowboy boots, a football jacket, a huffy bike and so on. My mother was truly traumatized when I insisted on picking out the outfit for my 4th grade school picture from the boys section: it was a lovely striped maroon and blue shirt with a matching sweater vest from JCPenney. She still brings this up at least once a year and I am 43. It made an impression. When my twin girls were born, I did not like pink, had never liked pink - and could not bring myself to decorate their nursery in pink or pastels, so I went with a Peter Rabbit gender neutral theme. As they grew, the more "girl" colors grew on me and I did add more traditional colors to their wardrobes and their bedroom. Then, of course, they discovered on their own that pink and purple WERE their favorite colors after all. And, I thought in my late 20's and early 30's, that surely I must be gay, given my propensity for all things boy and really identifying more with boys than girls. But, it didn't turn out to be so. I may fall somewhere on the middle-upper scale for sexuality, but I am happy and content in a heterosexual relationship. I just find it all fascinating that even gender identity doesn't ensure sexuality. I do wish our society was more accepting of people who don't fit in these traditional molds, but hopefully we are working toward that in the future. It took me years to sort it all out. I have four kids and I hope that they have an easier time figuring these things out and will be comfortable however they choose to live their lives.
ReplyDeleteHilarious. Thanks for the giggle...I actually snorted with laughter!
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But I thought of you and your blog and your family's love of board games. Hopefully it will bring a little added entertainment - not that there ever seems to be a dull moment in the Newman household!
Will you please post some information on slow cookers?! I'd love to know your thoughts/findings/recommendations. Thanks!
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ReplyDeleteI never meant to imply that Catherine wouldn't love her kids if they loved pink and blue. I just think when we put too much emphasis on either fitting into a stereotype or on rejecting the stereotype it ends up the same way, with the kids choosing what will make the parents happy.
ReplyDeleteI have 2 kids and while I encourage them to embrace their unique qualities, I don't feel the need to stress that they should be different just for the sake of being different.
I agree with Amy about the kids choosing what makes the parents happy. Well said.
ReplyDeleteLMAO! I recently read--can't remember where (thanks, mommy-brain)--that before WWII pink was for baby boys, blue for girls. Hmmmmm.....
ReplyDeleteWhen they were little my daughter's favorite color was blue and my son's favorite was pink. She dressed him in a feather boa. They held hands and sang. Now they drive to school together sharing the ipod. They comment about a range of cool colored cars. I could be wrong but I think they're still singing.
ReplyDeleteThanks for shakin' it up.
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Just had to add (very belatedly) that my son is sporting BRIGHT orange toenail polish. He's almost 8. I told him I was fine with him getting it (he came with me when I got a pedicure and his sister was getting her nails painted, too), but that he had to be prepared that some kids might think it's weird or tease him for it. He said he could handle it. So far, so good. But then again, it's not summer when he'd be running around in flip-flops. I wanted him to know both sides - that it is fine, some boys do like polish, BUT he has to understand that not everyone may be kind to him about it.
ReplyDeleteSomeday, could you talk to us more about how you help Ben (or how he helps you) deal with the kids and/or adults who comment negatively on his pink choices? I have a daughter who's very interested in traditionally "boy" things, and it's easy for me to be ok with it, but I fear the hurt that may come in later years. I need some tools.
ReplyDeleteYou were the only real thing at Disney, far, far too good for them. I have to believe for you that this is because a door is opening to an even more amazing writing home. I found you whilst pregnant with my just-turned-eight daughter and have considered you a friend ever since, can't wait to see where you'll wind up next! Onward and upward!
ReplyDeleteYou were always, always too good for Disney, the most real and yet magical thing they had (and the only reason I ever went there). I can't help but trust that there is a wider, bigger more amazing door opening onto another writing home for you and I can't wait to see what it is! I found you while pregnant with my now eight-year-old daughter and was grateful for you beyond measure all through that first year and ever since. So much love and gratitude and promise of continued readership to you!
ReplyDeleteI, too, love you!! Inspiring, in so many ways.
ReplyDeleteDear Catherine,
ReplyDeleteThanks for ever enjoyable writing, and lots of ideas for naming colours. It's like colour of lipstick, nail varnish - hours of silly fun.
I have to comment on the colour thing, since I am a mother of two girls, but also an MA-student in fashion studies. (How did I get here? Long story.)
The colour pink: one hundred years ago it was considered such a strong, masculine colour that some people thought it wholly inappropriate for girls.
The colour lightblue: very effeminate.
All this changed after WWII. The super polarization - with huge divides in colour coding for boys and girls, on clothes, toys, furniture, etc - has occured over the last 20 years. I remember it happening.
Fun intelligent read, recommended: Peggy Orenstein, Cinderella Ate My Daughter, only just published.
Have a wonderful weekend, and thanks again for lovely writing. Catherine, I discovered your writing on Babycenter almost 11 years ago, when I - new to the internet - wrote www.baby.com, and found you!
Happy weekend!
Sincerely,
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BE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE BACK AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2 YEARS WITH MY 7 YEARS OLD SON JERRY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 7 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME DDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM WEST AFRICA UNTIL I SAW A POST ABOUT MAMA ANITA SPELL AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HER MY LAST TRAIL.SHE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND $380 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 24HOURS, I HAVE PAID OVER $3000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HER A TRY SO I CALLED HER AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE $380 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS SHE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE MY WIFE AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PMTHAT DAY I SAW MY WIFE ON LINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 9 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFF-LINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ON LINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL MAMA ANITA THE NEXT DAY THANKING HER FOR WHAT SHE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HER AND THANK HER AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT MY WIFE PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A TRUE LOVE SPELL THEN CONTACT MAMA ANITA (mamaanita.lovespellsolution@gmail.com) or mama.anitaspellcraft@hotmail.com website http://kelvinlargemyself.wix.com/anita
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Last year I broke up with my girlfriend due to many misunderstandings and I remember very well how hard I had been fighting to get her back. She changed her number, changed her job so that I don’t visit her office and none of her friends would give me any information about her. The only thing I could do was to go find help from anywhere, so i looked for a way to get her back then a friend recommended me to contact wisdomspelltemple1@gmail.com that he will help me and as my friend said, Dr Help helped me to bring back my girlfriend just in 3 days, I now have her back and this is the biggest joy of my life.
ReplyDeleteGood day my name is Steven am from Norway, i don't just know how to say this, am short of words i never new that there are spell casters who can truly bring back lost love,but Dr erigo has showed me that there are real spell casters,he brought back my love after i have been scammed by some thief who claims to be spell casters, i was in love with a girl she loved me and i loved her too,suddenly she started behaving negatively towards me,one morning she just woke up and told me she is tired of the relationship, i was so surprised because i never did anything wrong to her since we have been in relationship for good 4years i do respect her so much just because of the love i have for her,so i decided to plead with her to forgive me if i have wronged her unknowingly, but she insisted to quite,that was how we broke up since 2years ago, i could not do without her because i love her so much, she left me and she no longer pick my calls,then i have been looking for how to get her back to my life, i have been contacting some thief's online who claims to be spell casters, they scammed me of my money, then i decided not to contact any spell caster again,until a friend of mine introduced me to Dr erigo he told me that Dr erigo helped his sister in getting back her love few weeks ago then i decided to give a try for the last time due to the evidence i saw, then i contacted him and told him everything and how i have been scammed the only thing he told me was that am lucky for contacting him that my love will come back to me within 24 hours,then i told him that is not possible, then he told me to watch and see,that was how i decided to wait and see what will happened in the next 24hours,immediately the 24hours got completed surprisingly i got a call from her i was shocked she was crying on the phone pleading to me that i should forgive her,at first i taught it was a dream,but i now realized that this is reality so i have to forgive her because that is what i have been looking for, within the next 5hours she came to my house still pleading for forgive then i told her i have forgiven her and now we are living happily than ever before, i thank you Dr erigo, if you need his help you can contact him through his private mail: erigospellcaster@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteMy name is Kesby Karen i am very happy for the wonderful work Dr bolingo has done for me i got married to my lovely husband last year February and we have a lovely son. things was going well with us and we are living happily. until one day my husband started behaving in a strange manner i could not understand, i was very confused with the way he treat me and my son. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was sad and also frustrated i did not know what to do,i was sick for more than a week because of the divorce. i love him so much he his everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told one of my child hood friend and she told me to contact a spell caster that she has listen to one woman who testify about dr bolingo and she has been hearing about him that i should try him i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing but i just say i should try if something will come out of it. i contacted Dr bolingo for the return of my husband to me, he told me that my husband have been taken by another woman. that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want to divorce me. then he told me that has to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and my son, he casted the spell and after 1 day my husband came back home and started apologizing he said that he love me so much that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that Dr bolingo casted on him that make him come back to me,right now am so happy again. thank you Dr bolingo for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. this is to every one who is facing divorces or heart break by your lover i want you to contact him now because he can do it for you his powers is great and dont have any side effect in the future contact him through his mail: bolingospelltemple@gmail.com .contact him now and your problems will be solve for ever.once again thanks to dr bolingo.
ReplyDeleteWhat a day to share testimony about Dr. Erigo my life has been messed for 2 years, I have been in a dark tunnel, my boyfriend has never loved me because he has always been afraid to give love a chance after his multiple breakup which cost him his job, car and house (the lady he trusted betrayed him and too all, then). He don’t even treat me like his girl even when he moved into my house. I was angered when I asked him if he genuinely love me, he said he do, but he don’t still trust or have feeling for me or seeing us being together in future, I cried all night because I love him and I can do anything possible for us to be.
DeleteI have to seek for help because I noticed all the efforts I have made for the past 2 years weren’t enough. That’s when I contacted Dr. Erigo through his email (erigospellcaster@gmail.com), I felt like I deserve better because I am good, kind, caring and happy person and I know he needs help spiritually. Dr. Erigo replied and vowed to help me out of the dark tunnel we were into which he did within 3 days of constant work on us. I was shocked when my boyfriend text to tell me that he is missing me and I should come back home early for dinner (this is a man who never cared even if I spend days outside), the spell worked perfectly and we have been in serious romantic relationship for 3 months for the first time.
Am so happy and grateful for this powerful Master. Thank you Dr. Erigo and remain blessed for also helping my Cousin “Lucy”. We both thank you and your family.
"" HOW I GOT MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK""
ReplyDeleteI want to use this great medium to thank LORD MASUKA for helping me to get my boyfriend back after he dumped me for 3 months .My boyfriend breakup with me because he see another girl at his church and told me he is no longer want me and live me in pain and heart break.I seek for help on the internet and i saw so many good talk about this great spell caster LORD MASUKA of lordmasukaspelltemple@hotmail.com and i contacted him also and explain my problems to him and he cast a love spell for me which i use to get back my boyfriend within the period of 3 days and i am so grateful to him for the good work he has done for me,that is why i also want to let everyone who is in need of help out there to also seek help from him so he can help.His email is lordmasukaspelltemple@hotmail.com or call +2347053105287 or view and contact him on his website:
http://lordmasukaspelltem.wix.com/lordmasuka you can contact for any kind of help and he will help you. And you can also reach him on facebook Harry Masuka or Skype Lord masuka
I was crushed when my lover of three years left to be with another woman. I
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Internet for help.And i saw a testimony of a spell caster who help a girl
called michelle and i said let me give it a try so i contact him for help
and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting my lover back and now
i am a happy woman.For what you have done for me,i will not stop to share
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God blesses you as much as you have help me to get my Love back,visit him
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